My boy friend always uses my stuff which is all girl stuff like my dress,lipstick,costmetics?

he is not a gay or bai he is straight but i dont know why he does all this, he wants get his hands waxted and eyebrow done but not go in public with girls clothes. what may be the problem.My boy friend always uses my stuff which is all girl stuff like my dress,lipstick,costmetics?
He may not be a homosexual and he may be straight... but he may have a more serious problem.. like the daughter of Cher and Sony Bono, she always felt more like a man and is not happy as a woman.. now she is going to have a sex change.. in a woman they made her see a psychiatrist for one year.. to really find out as changing sexes and become a man when born a woman or vice versa.. born a man and always had the desire to be a woman.. they get psychological counceling for one year.. if they are still determined and otherwise mentally stable.. they are given hormone pills.. a woman gets male hormones.. and when they are ready, they perform the operation.. right now, the daughter of Cher lives looking like a guy and gets hormone treatment.. to prepare her.. and when the time comes she will become physically a ''man'' in an operation or it may take many operations before she is transformed physically into a man... and maybe your boyfriend is trapped in the ''wrong body'' and really feels like a woman and he loves things women wear and cosmetics and jewellery.. that is maybe an indication that he is a guy but feels he would much rather have been born a girl... because ''gay's don't usually wear make up, I agree with you on that.. only the very effeminate ones.. A gay guy often doesn't even behave ''gay''. Most of them walk like a man and some of them are more effeminate, but only 50 % of them.. the rest would never wear make up or dresses and even an effeminate male does not wear a dress.. but a transvestite.. , a crossdresser or a guy who is born in the wrong body and wants to be a woman would take such an interest in wearing a dress and lingerie and make up and lipstick.. so I think your boyfriend has more serious problem than being gay or bisexual.. he may be trapped in the wrong body.. and the wrong sex.. or he is a transvestite.. or else has the emotions and mind of a woman but was born male and he is not happy with it...that is something you really need to talk to him about ... and ask him why he wants to dress as a woman...because he does this for a reason and he must at least want to go out and be a crossdresser or a transvestite in order to do what he does.. but if so, you can't blame him, he is born to be this way and nobody is to blame...It's nobody's fault if that's the case but you do need to ask him and you both need to talk about this together... urgently ...but without getting angry.. in a calm conversation... xx





PS. if there is mutual respect and trust in your relationship then I sure you get the most honest and most genuine response to your question from your boyfriend himself if you ask him without reproach why he gets a thrill out of dressing and looking like a woman... I can understand a guy doing that as a joke, ''dress up to surprise her'' once... it can be funny but if he really loves women's clothers more than his own and cosmetics and lipstick then there is a lot more behind it and I agree that the answer is not that he is ''gay'' because ''homosexuals don't dress as women'' some act effeminate, but they don't wear make up and dresses, some just act the ''female part in their demeanor and the other homosexual acts not effeminate at all because he is the ''man'' in the relationship.





Crossdressing is not something unheard of but it's not normal for a man to want to do that.. but it's nobody's fault, same as being a lesbian or being gay is just the way a person is born most of the time and it's not a crime... but a crossdressing boyfriend who wants to look more feminine than the woman, I think that is a bit of an ''extreme'' relationship...anything is possible but you need to talk to him.My boy friend always uses my stuff which is all girl stuff like my dress,lipstick,costmetics?
It is a serious psychological problem he is suffering from identity crisis, you may ask him if what is his drive why he is acting like that. There is a theory that a person copy his identity to the person he or she really like or hates also from the person he idolize, If your bf is having trouble with his mother perhaps that is the reason
It's not a ';problem'; he just likes to cross-dress.
uhm...He's got some SERIOUS issues.
It is called a Metrosexual